In the world of underground fetishes, there are a few skilled folks that have a gift. Impossibly, there are people that can ejaculate without any kind of stimulation. You heard me right! This revered skill is called the “Hands Free Orgasm”. Unfortunately, describing how to cum hands free can be quite the challenge. Many people complain with comments like “this is a lot of work” or “my brain checks out and I get bored”, and I totally understand. HFO is a difficult and cryptic endeavor. Some people swear by nipple stimulation or prostate play and others even talk about stinging nettle Figuring out how you should start can be difficult. However, today I am going to do a deep dive into how to cum handsfree and try to demystify this incredible skill!
How to Cum Hands Free: Step 1- Get Turned On
Generally, people are pretty good at this. Give the jerking off a break. For most, the longer you wait, the better. I know this will be a challenge for some of you, but you will be happy you did. After you have done the impossible by skipping a few days of masturbation, you need to turn that arousal up to eleven! Take your usual porn and turn it up a notch. Instead of your usual porn, get something really depraved. For example, if you enjoy cuckold porn, add an element like impregnation or BBC. If your tastes are a bit more common, maybe go for double penetration. Hell, why not find a double penetration creampie compilation that lasts 45 minutes! Those examples are a bit lewd but, you need to be extremely aroused.
Step 2: Understanding Kegels
Kegels are just flexing your dick. People make it out to be more complicated than it actually is. In reality, any time your dick moves, voluntarily or involuntarily, that is a kegel. Kegels are an important element for having a hands free orgasms. Flexing your pelvic floor is what will cause the sensations that will make you ejaculate. Additionally, if you struggle to find your pelvic floor muscles, think about what muscles you would use to stop urinating mid stream, that is the same group of muscles you want to use for kegels. If you need more help figuring out kegels, check out this site.
How should you practice kegels? You should flex and hold for 5 seconds. Try to keep flexed as hard as you can without pain or strain. Further, I find it easiest to keep a strong kegel when I have my legs side-by-side so that you can get your ass muscles involved (a little ass workout never hurt). It may take you some time to figure out how to do kegels effectively and that is okay! When you have kegels figured out, you can use them to help you cum handsfree. Plus, you can use kegels to do a cock helicopter. You remember that website with the guy spinning his meat?
Step 3: Positioning
In my own experience, I have found positioning to be important when you want to HFO. For me, the best position is laying flat in bed with my testicles tucked tightly between my legs, with my legs together firmly. Having your legs together should allow for stronger kegels (remember that from earlier?) and the tucked testicles will pull your penis skin tight allowing for more sensitivity. If you have difficulty getting your foreskin to pull tightly (for the uncut folks), try tucking further between your legs, if that doesn’t work try a cock ring. For the ring, the best way to set it up is to bring it all the way down to the base and pull out as much slack as you can. This method can be used regardless of whether you have foreskin or not. Chiefly, the pulling of the skin is what will be getting you off. However, the power of your mind cannot be understated.
How to Cum Hands Free: Put it All Together
First, lay down in bed, get comfortable. Second, watch at least an hour of depraved porn. Really get naughty with it. Get an idea in your head that turns you on the most, save that thought for later. Next, tuck your balls between your legs, keep it taut, and do some warm up kegels while you watch some dirty smut. Turn off the porn completely when you start to feel any kind of good sensation from the kegels. The sensation you are looking for is a slight pulling on your frenulum (most sensitive spot located just under the head). It is very important to turn off the porn at this point.
The Secret Ingredient
What is the secret ingredient? FOCUS. Do 5 second kegels, drag them out as long as they feel good. Push your thighs down to get extra tug on your foreskin. Also, make sure to keep your kegels going strong and consistent. Focus on the feeling of pulling in the frenulum area. That needs to be your focus right now. Seriously, fixate on the feeling. If you truly focus on that spot, you will feel orgasm coming eventually. If it feels good, keep going. Enjoy the moment.
Finally, there will be a point where you feel strong pleasure, but it just isn’t enough to get you to orgasm. This is normal. So, we have something to combat that. You selected a thought or image earlier that turns you on immensely. Now is the time to pull out that thought. Continue your kegels and imagine that incredible thought. It can be whatever your heart desires as long as it gets you hot. Use that thought to push you over the edge. The orgasm should be like nothing you have ever experienced. It is almost as if the pleasure isn’t centered in your cock, but all over your body. Feel it wash over you in a unique wave with strong involuntary kegels launching your semen in force you have never felt before. You finally had a hands free orgasm!
Final Thoughts
Congrats on having your first hands free orgasm! If you haven’t had any success yet, that is okay. Truly, HFO is a challenge for most people. Usually it takes several sessions and razor focus to make it work. Also, some people may need to practice kegels before they can make it work. Tucking your testicles is surely the best method for myself and a few other people I know but, the position may not work for you. Additionally, some folks have had success laying on their side with testicles and penis tucked back. It is a matter of personal preference. Try my method first, give it a few tries before you move on. Please let me know if this method has worked for you! I love getting messages on Discord and Reddit. I want to know how it goes! Happy Cumming!
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