Andy [00:00:32] Hello everyone, and welcome to the fourth episode of the Prejac Podcast. Today we are talking about the benefits, the positives, the plus sides about coming when you are ready. Being a prejac is not necessarily a bad thing. I am Andy and I am joined here with my partner Johnny.
Johnny [00:00:54] Yeah, hi I’m Johnny and Andy and I are going to talk about some interesting stats today, so enjoy.
Andy [00:01:05] Yeah, and my viewpoint on it is basically that sex is what you make it. You can’t let society or porn dictate what you are going to do with you, yourself and your partner in bed. And so today I think we’re going to really pull back the veil and look at the stats and the data, the studies, the numbers, the truth, and really see what people want and need with sex.
Johnny [00:01:36] Absolutely, Andy. So let’s talk about. The first topic coming in a timely manner, is it? A bad or not a bad thing. What do you think?
Andy [00:01:52] Well, I think coming fast is really just accepting, accepting pleasure. You know, I think a lot of people try not to come fast because they’ve learned this from porn. And at the end of the day, who are you trying to please by lasting longer? It might not make sex much better for you. And women don’t actually need the hours of sex. Some music artists like Sting have projected unrealistic things. Sting with his hours all night long lovemaking. Come on.
Johnny [00:02:28] He’s ridiculous and all that. So I really I really get the point. And I think that most most women don’t want extraordinarily long sex.
Johnny [00:02:52] Lasting long is a good thing. And lasting long might be a good thing if your partner is into it, but you probably guess most most of your partners won’t be into it. So don’t let that porn and society get you to believe that only lasting long in bed is a good thing and being quick is a bad thing.
Andy [00:03:21] And you can’t just assume that every single partner wants to be Jack hammered like that. There’s a really good TED talk by Cindy Gallop, and she talks about how hardcore pornography is really distorted our ideas of sex. And she talks about things like in porn, the men will come three times and the woman will come ten times and a lot of sex between people. Nobody comes. It happens all the time.
Johnny [00:03:53] If a woman comes, it comes one time she’s done. That’s pretty common, I guess. So no. Yeah.
Andy [00:04:02] No, that’s certainly my experience is like women don’t typically. I know the multi orgasmic woman is sort of like this huge thing in porn, but I don’t know about your experience, but in my experience, women aren’t always gunning for 15 orgasms.
Johnny [00:04:20] And my experience is if if a woman had one or two orgasms, that’s that’s completely fine for her. And she’s she’s all all set all the way satisfied. So there’s no need for going to or going to or going for a ten or 15 orgasms maybe a day.
Andy [00:04:42] Right.
Johnny [00:04:42] Unless not in one.
Andy [00:04:43] Unless that’s really what she wants. You know, I mean, if that’s something that she’s super into, then that’s something you got to figure out how to provide.
Johnny [00:04:51] You got your unicorn. If she’s super into in and getting pounded ten times a day or something like that.
Andy [00:05:01] And then there’s also the aspect of the body forms that are in porn. You know, all the women that are in like the really big porn industry are like four foot ten and, and, but very proportionate. So you can’t tell that they’re a lot smaller than more normal women. And then they got men with pretty big dicks. But because of the ratio between how small that woman is and they’re, you know, I don’t know, eight or nine inch dick, they look like they got a 16 inch dick or something.
Johnny [00:05:28] Looks like it’s totally big, but it’s, it’s probably not. Because if you have a have a small woman and with a small waist and an average dick, it looks like it’s giant.
Andy [00:05:42] Absolutely. And so that gives everyone involved a weird idea of what to expect, right?
Johnny [00:05:48] Absolutely. And reality in most cases is absolutely different. So I don’t expect a woman to have a giant tits and impossibly small waist. It’s more the other way round. It’s a giant waist and small tits.
Johnny [00:06:08] Giant waist giant tits. So.
Andy [00:06:13] Right. And not all men want women that look like that. And not all women want men with 16 inch dicks that don’t exist.
Johnny [00:06:21] Absolutely. Especially for for long time relationships. Women tend to like men with a little smaller dicks than average. And I guess a guy coming quicker than average. That’s right. I don’t I don’t know which study that stated, but I’ve read about that. So most women in long time relations tend to tend to like smaller men and quicker man.
Andy [00:06:52] Absolutely. And we have the stats for those times for this episode, which you’re going to talk about here in a little bit. We know exactly how long women want to have sex from a very good Swedish study that came out just a few years ago. And I don’t know, I got the big dicks on my brain now, and those things are great. The big dicks and small waists and all of the photography and everything and is wonderful in porn, but man, it really isn’t realistic. And the weirdest one for me is the jackhammer, like pounding that lasts for like 45 minutes in 66% of porn.
Johnny [00:07:31] Yeah, that’s that’s pretty common and tends to make all the young guys who sleep on the watch. A lot of it tend to to believe they must jackhammer girls and all that kind of things like that for well such a long time. So it’s absolutely unrealistic.
Andy [00:07:54] But those women that do like getting pounded for a long time probably do like kissing. And would you be surprised to know that only 25% of porn includes kissing? That means 75% of porn has no kissing. How realistic is that?
Johnny [00:08:12] That’s not realistic. And those 25% of porn who include kissing are that porn made by women as directors and camera girls or whatever. So those new female positivity points or whatever.
Andy [00:08:35] So true. Yeah, they’re probably they’re probably lesbian kissing. Let’s be off.
Johnny [00:08:40] Data on that?
Andy [00:08:43] I don’t have data on that, but we have a lot of stats for this episode. I’ll tell you, we got like 15, not 15. I got like eight citations. So all of these studies are going to be linked down below. I would like to know how many porn directors are women versus men. That’s probably like a 9 to 1 ratio, I would imagine.
Johnny [00:09:02] So let’s get back to the porn kissing and porn kissing in your relation. So 25% kissing in porn is nothing comparable to kissing in relation. So I guess in a relationship you kiss your partner several times a day without having sex at that day. Or even if you’re going to have sex, you might be starting kissing and not undressing on a couch. And go ahead. And Jack, how am I a girl?
Andy [00:09:30] So absolutely. I mean, that’s a big part of foreplay. And it is up to you and your partner to decide how you want to have sex. It’s not up to porn. It’s not up to society. If you guys like kissing and you most likely do, then that’s what you’re going to do. So don’t follow porn for that one.
Johnny [00:09:49] I get that only a few that don’t like kissing. And if you if you’re at the foreplay and a long extended foreplay, which most of our girls surely like, you come to intercourse and you got some interesting stats on on stats and studies that show the satisfactory intercourse time for woman and man.
Andy [00:10:18] Of course. So in one large study that was done recently, women said that satisfactory intercourse time is between three and 13 minutes.
Johnny [00:10:30] Shouldn’t we edit that to 30 seconds and 30 minutes?
Andy [00:10:41] Well, I will add that there is a section also that says one minute to 2 minutes is too short. So you have that window between two and 3 minutes where you might be okay. Well, even if you are that quick, it’s not really going to be a huge problem because the stats are really on our side. So only 26% of women can come from vaginal sex alone. Whoever designed the female body made one hell of a joke by putting the clitoris on the outside. So women aren’t statistically going to come from sex regardless of how long you’re going to last. So sex is about pleasure and giving pleasure. It’s not about how long you’re going to last. It’s about enjoying it and your wife will enjoy penetrative sex, but she will also enjoy lots of other stuff. What am I talking about, Johnny?
Johnny: [00:11:38] I don’t know, sorry. (violent cough)
Andy [00:11:46] You just gargling a porcupine there?
Johnny: [00:11:48] No.
Johnny [00:11:53] Yeah. What kind of stuff are you talking about?
Andy [00:11:57] I’m talking about. I’m talking about oral sex. I’m talking about cunnilingus. I’m talking about eating that punani.
Johnny [00:12:05] Yeah, Licking of that hell of a joke of a clitoris outside her pussy.
Andy [00:12:14] Statistically, that’s what the ladies want. Yeah, but it’s also what the men want. It’s what everyone wants. Everyone wants to get eaten out. Everyone wants oral sex. That is the key to a successful sex life. That is the key to a happy relationship. And we have the studies on that linked below.
Johnny [00:12:33] Yeah. So what about 69? You both get full enjoyment.
Andy [00:12:42] That’s true. That’s a good one. Actually, 69 is great.
Johnny [00:12:45] Yeah, it’s absolutely great. So, you know.
Andy [00:12:49] So I wanted to share a few stats with our listeners about how important cunnilingus is, how great the mighty clitoris is, and how important oral sex is for couples. So would you believe me if I told you that there are studies that suggest that cunnilingus can decrease the prevalence of miscarriage?
Johnny [00:13:15] It’s like kissing.
Andy [00:13:19] It is kind of like kissing. And I guess the mechanism of action is kind of weird to describe, but apparently it assists with a imbalance of immunity that is required for the embryos to implant. So eating your wife out or partner will increase the chance of healthy conception. What is up with that?
Johnny [00:13:40] Sounds good to me.
Andy [00:13:44] So, it’s everything you need. This is holistic right here. Pussy. Eatin’: It’s good for your health. It’s good for your relationship. It’s fun. It’s a hobby. It’s a beautiful thing.
Johnny [00:13:54] So pussy for breakfast, pussy for dinner. That’s fine for everyone, I guess.
Andy [00:14:02] Three course meal. Yeah. Three course meal of pussy.
Johnny [00:14:08] It must be fine.
Andy [00:14:09] Let me tell you, my wife’s got that Michelin Star pussy. Okay, but there’s other stats, Johnny. There’s stats about preeclampsia. Preeclampsia is a medical terminology word about having high blood pressure during pregnancy, and it could be fatal for both parents and babies. However, eating your wife out reduces the risk of preeclampsia.
Johnny [00:14:37] Well, yeah. For your wife, that’s good. That’s what the stats on stage, if it’s good for you, or for your wife? So I guess it’s good for the wife. And if I was wrong about.
Andy [00:15:00] Well, not.
Johnny [00:15:00] Maybe not.
Andy [00:15:01] Eating your wife out could be fatal for you, regardless.
Andy [00:15:16] Oh, shit. I’m going to have trouble finishing this one, man. I’m laughing too hard. Oh, my God.
Johnny [00:15:22] Okay, so eating your wife out could prevent high blood pressure for your wife and eating your wife out regularly on a regular basis. Okay. Can increase the possibility to have a satisfactory relationship with your wife. But let’s talk about not every woman can come from oral sex maybe, you know, some some techniques or could explain how to pleasure woman that can’t get an orgasm with her clitoris?
Andy [00:16:08] So you’re asking for oral sex techniques?
Johnny [00:16:10] Maybe.
Andy [00:16:13] So I got a great one that I learned way back in the day. This technique I like to call. I got to come up with a cool name for it. Now I’m gonna call it the “Spelling Bee.”
Johnny [00:16:25] Spelling bee.
Johnny [00:16:27] You have to explain that.
Andy [00:16:29] I just came up with that one. So what you do is you go through the ABCs and you draw a letter with your tongue for each letter. So on a you draw “A” with your tongue, okay? “B,” you draw a “B,” and you just go through the alphabet until you get the reaction that you’re looking for. And then you just continue on with that letter. So if you keep going and you go and you go until you get to “O,” and she’s like, “oh, oh,” then you know, that’s the one you’re going to stick with and you’re going to finish her off that way. And if she guesses the letter, that’s even better.
Johnny [00:17:04] Okay. I well, that’s sounds good to me. Maybe I will try that if I get the chance to.
Andy [00:17:14] Well, I’m sure you have some good pussy eating methods as well.
Johnny [00:17:19] Maybe in my experience, if you can’t make it with your tongue, you maybe try to slowly put your middle finger in her and try to find the spot that that might be the G-spot in her and your index and your ring finger you put outside of your labia and push and squeeze them together a little bit. And you, you just kind of I don’t know how to say that. Make a come over here sign with your middle finger in some ways and do that and try to maybe add that to your ABC method or Spelling Bee and you might make her come in no time.
Andy [00:18:10] Wow, I’ve never heard of that. So you use your ring finger and your first finger together to, like, work around on the labia? Yeah. And and this is this is my message here. Come when you’re ready. Make sure to eat out your partner all the time. And that goes for couples, groups of whatever number homosexuals, hetero, bis, pans, whatever gender you are, whomever they are, the numbers are out. And it shows us that you need to eat them out. That’s the key.
Johnny [00:18:44] Except for the I don’t know if it’s called “asexual” in English.
Andy [00:18:51] Yes, it is called asexuals and asexuals- you just do whatever you do. You know, that’s that’s my advice.
Johnny [00:18:58] You get satisfaction out of eating or whatever you like.
Andy [00:19:03] Yeah. Yeah. However you want to hang out, then you guys just go for it.
Speaker1: [00:19:09] Sure.
Andy [00:19:11] Let it happen, Captain. That’s what I say.
Johnny [00:19:19] Famous fetishist from history!
Andy [00:19:23] Oh, yes. So I’m sure a lot of you have heard of Jean-Jacques Rousseau. And if you haven’t-
Johnny [00:19:32] Could you say that again?
Andy [00:19:39] We have here a very famous philosopher by the name of Jean-Jacques Rousseau. Jean-jacques Rousseau, Yes. So he was an extremely important philosopher from history. He believed that the evil ways of modern culture and society led to the corruption of man from his natural state. And he also liked having his ass cheeks slapped around by the ladies. So he was a fetishist. He liked getting spanked.
Johnny [00:20:20] And some guys, that’s an arousing experience, I guess, because why should one get his ass spanked if he doesn’t get any pleasure out of it?
Andy [00:20:31] Exactly. He was into, you know, BDSM.
Johnny [00:20:35] Yeah.
Andy [00:20:36] And I think it’s just kind of strange that he’s a guy that thinks modern society and culture is evil. But then again, there’s a quote about him going into alleyways and asking ladies to spank him.
Johnny [00:20:47] So it’s kind of creepy.
Andy [00:20:50] But it’s just not consistent. So it even goes a little further than that, man. He the story is he was spanked by his caretaker, like his, I guess, babysitter when he was a kid. And this. I’m going to butcher this name. Oh, God. Mademoiselle, the Lemonsieur. And so she spanked him. Yeah. But he liked it. And so he kept searching it out in his relationships. And even to the point of calling his partners “Mama” and himself “the little one.” So he was really into this adult baby stuff a long time ago.
Johnny[00:21:33] Please take my little baguette. Oh, that’s big.
Speaker1: [00:21:39] Spank my ass.
Andy [00:21:44] Mademoiselle omelet du fromage.
Johnny [00:21:50] Coming to language. You got some real sex slang questions, I guess. I’ve never heard of that.
Andy [00:21:59] That’s right. Let’s do a nice little introduction here. Which sex slang is real.
Johnny [00:22:13] Okay, Once. Once again.
Andy [00:22:15] That’s just rude, Johnny.
Johnny [00:22:16] Oh, sorry.
Andy[00:22:20] All right.
Andy [00:22:23] Which sex slang is real? Okay, So what I’m going to do here is I’m going to read out three different sex slangs to you, Johnny, and you have to pick out the one that is indeed an actual sex slang. And then I will explain it to you. And you’re going to tell the audience whether you’ve done it before.
Johnny [00:22:43] I’ll try my best.
Andy [00:22:48] Number one, the toboggan.The toboggan.
Johnny [00:22:55] Number two.
Andy [00:22:55] So the toboggan. Just to give you some context, because you might not know what a toboggan is, a toboggan is like a big ass sled that they race in the Olympics. You might recognize them. It looks like a big piece of wood and like four or six people sitting there and they try to make this sled go really fast. Okay, that’s. That’s a toboggan. The second one, the zucchini cyclone.
Speaker1: [00:23:23] Mm hmm. Zucchini.
Andy [00:23:26] Zuchini cyclone. I don’t think they’re called zucchinis in Europe. They’re a type of squash.
Johnny [00:23:36] Okay, we have zucchini over here.
Andy [00:23:39] Last one. The digger clam. The digger clam. So we have the toboggan. The zucchini cyclone.
Johnny [00:23:47] I don’t know. I don’t get any clue what all that might be.
Johnny [00:23:55] Maybe think the digger clam is might be the real sex slang.
Andy [00:24:05] So you’re guessing the digger clam is the real sex slang? You are absolutely incorrect.
Andy [00:24:17] Of these three, the only real sex slang is the toboggan. Now, let me explain the toboggan to you and you can tell me whether you’ve done this one before. Okay. I’m going to explain to you the toboggan. So what you do is you fuck your partner on the top of some stairs, doggy style. And when you get close to coming, you give him one really big thrust, and you ride them down the stairs like a sleigh.
Johnny [00:24:49] What have you done that?
Andy [00:24:57] No, mostly because my stairs are carpeted.
Johnny [00:25:02] As always, guys, we got some frequently asked questions and any and I always stayed on that. So number one is will becoming premature make me unlovable? Andy, what’s your opinion on that?
Andy [00:25:19] So we get this kind of question like a lot. And to me, it’s just kind of sad because I don’t think being fast in bed is going to make anyone unlovable.
Johnny [00:25:33] Because you’re not beloved for being fast in bed or lasting long in bed. Your love for being the one who you are.
Andy [00:25:42] And that’s a very well put, man. I mean, there’s this whole there’s this whole idea of unconditional love. There’s a lot of people that don’t love unconditionally. But I would think if you have a partner that loves you for who you are, it doesn’t matter how long you’re going to last in bed if she’s going to break up with you because you’re coming too fast, you’re with the wrong person.
Johnny [00:26:08] Absolutely. Next question. Another question is how can I have intercourse for longer ? So are common. Common solutions are topical creams or sleeve strap-ons that will add a little extra time to intercourse.
Andy [00:26:34] Absolutely.
Andy [00:26:45] I always recommend Lidocaine. Lidocaine really works. You can get a lot more time out of there. If you last one minute without lidocaine, if you’re not used to it will probably get you over 10 minutes of sex, which is impressive. So the other options people like and let me know if you’ve used either of these are sleeves and strap ons. And I’ve used both. I know which way I lean on these two choices. Of those two. Which ones would you go for, Johnny?
Johnny [00:27:13] I would choose the sleeve so that it’s it’s a little bit more like you have real sex if you choose a strap on with if I’m going for you.
Johnny [00:27:33] If you use a sleeve, it’s a little bit like you’re really penetrating your partner. So even though there’s a sleeve, maybe you combine sleeves and lidocaine.
Andy [00:27:47] That’s not a bad idea, actually. Okay, next question. I have delayed ejaculation. Will project training help my relationship?
Johnny [00:27:55] Absolutely.
Andy[00:28:00] And why is that?
Johnny [00:28:02] I had a delayed ejaculation and in my case, it helped my relationship extremely in a sex department. Because if your girl or a wife doesn’t want to be fucked all day for 4 hours, maybe just for a few minutes, or likes to have short sessions, that helps. Training helps to get the times down to her times to maybe come together or whatever. It absolutely helps.
Andy [00:28:36] Coming together is a great thing, too. I think most women actually really appreciate that.
Speaker1: [00:28:41] Absolutely.
Andy [00:28:43] And it helped me as well. I had a huge problem not coming during intercourse. And I can tell you, for most partners, it’s very upsetting to not come from sex.
Johnny [00:28:58] Do women actually like when you can fast? Yeah. Some like when you come fast. Not all, but some.
Andy [00:29:08] Yeah. There’s definitely women that like it when you come fast. There’s videos of women online talking about it during interviews and stuff, saying specifically that they take it as a compliment.
Johnny [00:29:19] Even porn stars.
Johnny [00:29:27] We had a post with of Abella Danger in the Discord and where she stated that she likes it when a guy comes quick.
Andy [00:29:40] And she’s a professional.
Johnny [00:29:43] She’s a professional.
Andy [00:29:44] Yeah You know, she can get railed for probably 2 hours straight, but. But she still takes it as a compliment when the man comes on penetration. Absolutely. God bless her.
Johnny [00:29:57] Maybe we should invite her on the podcast.
Speaker1: [00:30:01] Podcast.
Johnny [00:30:03] That will be fun.
Andy [00:30:05] What would you ask her? What would you ask Miss Danger if we had her on the podcast?
Johnny [00:30:11] Oh. What she specifically likes about man coming quick. Is it just because it it gives a positive feeling? Is it just because. Yeah. Or is she. She is the quick one too, maybe.
Andy [00:30:30] Well, that’s a great question, actually. Man, let’s get her on. Somebody invite her to the podcast, please. Someone out there in audience land. Please send her an invite.
Andy [00:30:44] This goes out to you, Abella danger. If you’re listening, please come on the podcast. We’d love to have you. Free for you.
Andy [00:30:57] We’ve got a contest winner from the last contest where we were identifying a porn star from a close up. The winner of the last contest was Simon. Simon. Who was the porn star, Johnny?
Johnny [00:31:18] Yeah, it was Lana Rhoades. Well done, Simon. And he sent you the T-shirt? I guess you.
Andy [00:31:29] Yeah. Yeah, it’s in the mail. It’s in the mail.
Johnny [00:31:31] It’s in the mail.
Andy [00:31:32] Heading over to you, Simon.
Johnny [00:31:36] This was a latest episode, guys. We talked about prejac positivity and positivity in your relationship. We appreciate to have you with us next time and maybe we have some additional guest next time. Andy got some hints on him or her.
Andy [00:31:56] Yes, I’m very excited to have a gorgeous adult model who is going to be joining us for a interview on the next episode. We’re going to talk about some of the crazy stuff about adult modeling like face reveals and how they just get pulled into these kinky lifestyles with cuckolding and video making. It’s going to be a great, great episode. Very excited to have her on.
Johnny [00:32:22] Don’t miss that.
Andy [00:32:25] Don’t miss it and we’ll see you next time on the Prejac podcast.
Andy[00:32:39] Wicked.
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