Aery Mars [00:00:00] Hello there prejac. Welcome to the Prejac podcast. This episode is a threesome with your hosts, Andy and Johnny and me, Aery Mars.
Andy [00:00:08] Welcome to the sixth episode of the Prejac podcast. My name is Andy and I am joined with my partner in crime-
Johnny [00:00:15] Johnny.
Andy [00:00:17] Today, we are lucky to have a fantastic guest. She’s an adult model videographer, certified kinkster and she produces prejac content on her Fansly. She can be found at Fansly.com/Aerymars. All of her links are below. Her name is Aery Mars. Welcome to the show, Aery.
Aery Mars [00:00:45] Thank you. It’s good to be here.
Andy [00:00:47] Is this your first appearance on a podcast?
Aery Mars [00:00:51] No, it’s not. It’s been a while for me, though.
Andy [00:00:53] Really? Okay.
Aery Mars [00:00:55] Yeah, a couple of years at least.
Andy [00:00:58] I’m not surprised you’ve been on other podcasts, though. You have a really nice voice.
Aery Mars [00:01:03] You both have great voices.
Johnny [00:01:04] Thank you. Oh, thank you.
Andy [00:01:07] So you’ve been around in the Prejac sort of community for a while, Aery. What pulled you into the Prejac community?
Aery Mars [00:01:19] Okay, so, first of all, I forget how I exactly discovered it, but as I was just telling you last night, Andy, I have had, I think, a premature ejaculation kink for a while. Like, I remember searching for compilation videos of people coming really quickly. For years, just like to jerk off to have.
Andy [00:01:39] Good taste.
Aery Mars [00:01:41] Thank you. Andy. How did I find your communities online? I really can’t remember. My memory is not the best, but at some point in the last year I like it. It came up in my brain again and I got interested in it. I think in contrast to Gooning, I had been kind of in like Gooning World for a while, which is so much about edging and never coming. And I like, like orgasms. I think they’re great, and I think I was just kind of bored of everyone wanting to edge their entire lives. And I was like, What about the people who are on the other extreme? And I think that’s when I started searching for and found all the premature stuff.
Andy [00:02:23] Wow. Yeah, that is excellent. So is there any experience that you’ve had in the prejac world, like in real life?
Aery Mars [00:02:34] Uh, not enough, no. I mean, in terms of like, a true like a natural premature ejaculation. No. I’ve never had experience with it. Oh, it’s like a unicorn. Oh, yeah.
Johnny [00:02:49] But it’s pretty uncommon. Have a real. Yeah, Just like the one who nuts his pants before. Before even having any physical contact or anything like that.
Aery Mars [00:02:59] Yeah, it’s really rare. And I think there’s kind of this, like, narrative that happens out in the world, in society, that that’s a thing that does happen a lot, that people will make fun of. Like the idea of a minute, man. And I’ve just never really encountered that as much as people talk about it. Yeah, but, but I have been meeting up with and filming with somebody locally who I met through the Prejac Server Discord server who is like training and, you know, sometimes comes quicker than others, but yeah, that’s like the majority of my in-person experience right there.
Andy [00:03:38] That is really cool. Oh man. Yeah, I was so happy to see that. I don’t know why, but when I hear like about real people actually doing this training, it feels my heart with joy that maybe I helped helped them get on that trail a little bit. Man. Well, one thing that I’ve always wanted to have is a threesome, and I don’t think I’m ever going to get to that point. But maybe, maybe one day my wife will, you know, get on the train with that.
Johnny [00:04:07] But you never had a threesome?
Andy [00:04:10] No, I’ve never had a threesome. You know, as kinky as I am, it’s never something that my partner have been open to. You know, my partners have been pretty vanilla up until my current wife.
Aery Mars [00:04:24] Wait, what about you, Johnny? It sounds like you have had.
Johnny [00:04:27] Yeah, it’s pretty long ago. Yeah.
Johnny [00:04:32] Just just one yet? Absolutely. Just one. Wasn’t that exciting for me because it was more kind of a stressful job to do. Wow. In some way.
Aery Mars [00:04:47] Why are you stressed out?
Johnny [00:04:48] Oh, you okay? Imagine one guy lying on the bed on his back and the girl is riding him. And yeah, I am the other guy who has to take her from behind, so. Oh, finding, finding and finding a rhythm that fits best for the fucking hour thing to do. Yeah.
Aery Mars [00:05:15] Yeah. Like, I feel like you notice that so much in porn that the person who was in your position is kind of just staying still. Because I feel like, you know, your dick could fall out at any second. It probably will. So I can see what you mean.
Johnny [00:05:28] That’s for sure. Not not only mine, but the other guy’s dick fell out several times as well. So yeah, it was kind of falling out and plugging in again. So it was it wasn’t really fun. Well.
Andy [00:05:51] I’m jealous, even though it sounds like it was a lot of stress. Aery is that something that you’ve had.
Aery Mars [00:05:59] I have. I’ve never I’ve never gotten to experience Johnny’s configuration of having a threesome with two men or two people with two men or two people with penises. Although 2023 is my year, I’ve been saying that I’m like, It’s going to happen this year.
Aery Mars [00:06:15] But yeah, I have had threesomes with people of other genders like or vulva owners. Last summer there was this tie like, okay, so a friend of mine, the kind of backstory to this is that a friend of mine was going through a slutty phase, which both of us are sluts, but they were like in a particularly slutty moment. And we’re on Grindr and, like, hooking up with a lot of people, like a lot of people and kind of sometimes packing them in back to back multiple in a day. And I was like, okay. When they would tell me they had so many stories for me and they would tell me certain stories and I was like, You should share. I was like, You should share and we should have a threesome with one of these people. Like, pick a good one, bring them to me and let’s fuck them. So they did. Eventually I had to hassle them a bunch about it, but finally they picked someone who they liked and they were like, He’s really sweet. He’s got a nice dick like all these. I was like, Great, Invite him over. So they invited him over after they had been hosting dinner with some of our vanilla friends.
Aery Mars [00:07:17] And I remember, like, the time is coming up that he’s about to show up. And I was like, trying to get the other friends out of the house. I’m like, doing dishes in the kitchen, like giving them the signal, like, leave. And finally my friend kicks them out and was like, You have to go. I have a dick appointment. So and so guy comes over and yeah. And first we just, like, hung out and smoked a little bit, drank a little bit, got to know each other and eventually moved to the bedroom and played. And we had a really, really good night and really connected. I got to be very twitchy, which was fun. And when my when my friend had to go to sleep because they had another dick appointment in the morning, the the guy and I had been really hitting it off. And so I was like, Do you want to continue this at my place? And so he came back with me. We ended up staying up all night, just like talking, fucking cuddling. It was really nice.
Andy [00:08:12] That is super.
Johnny [00:08:13] Sweet, like an absolute cool experience.
Aery Mars [00:08:17] It was a great experience.
Andy [00:08:18] That doesn’t sound like something you typically find on Grindr. I’ve been all over Tinder. I mean, I’ve had a lot of experience with Tinder, and I actually met my wife on Tinder, oddly enough. But it doesn’t seem that typical. Do you have a lot of good luck with these kinds of websites?
Aery Mars [00:08:35] You know. I do. Okay. I do pretty well.
Andy [00:08:39] I believe it.
Aery Mars [00:08:42] Yeah, I guess I do have my current girlfriend I met off Tinder also. I mean, I like. I like meeting people out in the wild organically, too. I just think that it. It’s easy when you know that somebody is available and looking like, you know, like I have crushes on people out in the world, but a lot of them are partnered or like, you know, have kids or like have life obligations. Not to say that I, you know, don’t I’m non-monogamous and open about that. But like most of the most of the people you run into out in the world are not, you know. So it kind of helps to be on an app where I can be really upfront about that.
Andy [00:09:19] So you smoked a little bit of weed and. Then fucked in a threesome configuration of what type?
Aery Mars [00:09:31] Well, there was a few configurations, Andy. There were some moving about. Um, I don’t know. Like I said, my memory is not that good. I think configurations were. I don’t know. It’s going to take me like 20 minutes to remember details. I remember. I remember that my friend and the guy were 69 ing with my friend on top and like, hold, like pulling on their hair and, like, shoving their head down on his dick and dirty talking to them. I don’t remember a lot of details. I would have to have like really, really thought about it to get you a lot of the juicy details.
Andy [00:10:20] Well, I guess when you’re doing these appointments back to back like that, you probably would forget a lot of them. They probably all blend together.
Aery Mars [00:10:26] I was not going back to back. I like wish some days I want to, but my body’s kind of sensitive so I actually don’t think I can like. Do a ton. I don’t know. I mean, I did actually have sex pretty much the whole rest of the night, but. But the next day, I think I was tired.
Andy [00:10:45] Man. So did you have I guess did you and your friend have, like, a dick planner? Yeah. You would have to have an agenda, right, And have to schedule it all out.
Aery Mars [00:10:55] I am a Google calendar person. I live and die by the calendar. I don’t know how my friend handles their appointments. They must have a system. But I think things have slowed down for them lately.
Andy [00:11:11] You mentioned that you liked herbs. We were talking about pot earlier, but I’ve heard that you’re into, like other supplements and stuff, like sexual supplements in the herbal arena, if you will. What kind of things are you talking about?
Aery Mars [00:11:28] I would say I don’t have a lot of herbs that I would that I would specifically use for sex. That’s not. So I think I wrote a post in Discord that I did that was kind of explaining my perspective on it and linked to a couple of podcasts that or a couple recordings of a live class that Jim McDonald did. I think it was called Herbal Aphrodisiacs, and it’s available for free online. He does a really great job of explaining the concept that I was trying to explain, which is people like to think of herbs as being like a 1 to 1 kind of like a pill. Like you take a pill that’s for your blood pressure and it lowers your blood pressure. And I think in Western medicine, people like to act like that’s all it does. You know, people do recognize side effects a little bit, but it’s usually thought of as this, like negative, unintended consequence. Whereas with herbs, because they work less specifically throughout the body, there will be multiple effects from most herbs that you take. And depending on the person how they react, you know, it could be different.
Aery Mars [00:12:33] And so it’s more about trying to find the right herb for the right person and the right set of of things they’re trying to deal with. So as an herbalist, I don’t really do so much like 1 to 1 like, you want to be horny. There’s an herb that makes you horny. I do a lot more of like you have these five different issues. Here’s how they’re interrelated and here’s how we’re going to shift kind of the energetics of what’s happening with you in order to help all these different things that you’re dealing with. So when that comes to sex, if somebody has, like, nerves that are coming up around, you know, hooking up with somebody new or just like if they’re trying to get their times down and they’re feeling anxious about it and there’s too much pressure on taking something like a nerve nine, which like nerve and relaxant, which can help calm them down or reduce their anxiety, you know, might be the way to go rather than than aiming for an aphrodisiac, if that makes sense.
Johnny [00:13:26] Absolutely. That makes total sense.
Andy [00:13:29] Yeah, I never thought about it like that. That’s pretty interesting. We’ve experimented quite a bit with those, but, you know, I never kind of lean towards that direction. Johnny, have you tried anything like a nerve gene or anything that wasn’t directly an aphrodisiac that’s worked for you?
Johnny [00:13:43] Not when it comes to herbs, but I tried an hypnotist and she said, We have to find out what what might hold you back to, to come quick or what other other issues you’re dealing with. And we have to work on that first. To to make anything sexual possible. Having quick possible so that that might relate to us as well. It’s not. Yeah but what every said might make total sense to me because yeah you if you’re anxious about anything you might work on that before and yeah I think so. There might be herbs that help you to, to get in a more relaxed or better mood then. Yeah. Specific specific herbs that will you will make you come quick or anything like that. So and you know we tried some things somewhere else.
Aery Mars [00:14:50] Wait, tell me. Yeah, tell me about your experiments, both of you.
Johnny [00:14:54] Oh, yeah.
Aery Mars [00:14:55] What have you tried?
Andy [00:14:58] We’ve tried a lot of things. I’ve tried one thing that’s coming up a lot right now in the discord that we’ve tried is Yohimbine. And I found it was okay, but it gave me a lot of anxiety. So it really ties in to what you were saying about them, not just being one pill. It’s not like a blood pressure med, you know, it’s it acts on more than just one thing. And so I didn’t really feel like it made me very fast or anything. It just gave me a lot of anxiety.
Aery Mars [00:15:32] Yeah, I can’t help. I also have to make a plug for like, I feel like Westerners especially are people kind of. I don’t know exactly how to phrase this, but people are always kind of looking to these, like exotic, quote unquote, exotic herbs that maybe come from the Amazonian rainforest to try to, like, help with their sex drive. And I’m not really into that just because you don’t always know how those herbs were harvested. A lot of times people are driving plants to extinction and they don’t even really know how it’s going to work for their body. So I just want to like throw out that word of caution about, you know, people’s herbal experiments. I love herbs.
Johnny [00:16:15] Quality standards. Yeah.
Aery Mars [00:16:17] Quality standards, too.
Johnny [00:16:18] Yeah.
Aery Mars [00:16:19] Yeah. Like they’re being lead in the soil that the plant was grown in. There’s a lot. There’s a lot within the ethics and safety of herbs. That’s nuanced.
Andy [00:16:27] That’s true. And then there’s the whole capitalist aspect of it where people are getting taken advantage of with cheap or not real products as well. So that’s something that happens to. It’s a free market.
Aery Mars [00:16:40] Definitely. That and the other capitalist aspect of it, of people like, you know, taking something out of its traditional context or or cultural context and just being like, Oh, people use this for sex without thinking, you know, maybe you don’t know how that herb is prepared or you don’t know. Maybe there was something else that went along with that plant that helped give it that particular tone, either in preparation, you know, if someone was doing it in a ceremony that had a social aspect to it or there was like an intention that was put with it or other herbs that it was paired with, it was made into a formula and not taken by itself. That really gets removed when people are looking for a miracle or like magical pill. And yeah, I’ve not ever heard of a magic herb that makes you come fast. And if I would have already experimented with it if it existed.
Aery Mars [00:17:24] So I just want to put that out there.
Johnny [00:17:27] We all would have.
Aery Mars [00:17:31] So yeah, the whole Discord server would be on it. Yeah.
Johnny [00:17:34] I really appreciate your advice because most people don’t even know how to identify, identify good quality herbs or don’t know how they are produced or anything else. So. Yeah.
Andy [00:17:46] Man. Okay. Well, I just yeah, I guess we’ve got to remember that in any given capitalist environment, the proletariat will revolt against their oppression by the bourgeoisie. And after a brief period of socialist rule, emerge as a classless society governed by community cooperation.
Aery Mars [00:18:02] Yeah. I mean, we’ll remember that. I feel like you’re talking theory, which let’s. Let’s see it. I’m not. I’m ready for the collapse of capitalism, although I think that it’s going to be We’re going to get a little off topic here if I get on this, because I’m like, it’s going to be stressful. It’s going to be a deeply stressful, a chaotic experience if we if we actually overthrow the bourgeois. But let’s see.
Andy [00:18:29] Nothing else to add on that area.
Aery Mars [00:18:32] I don’t know. I think I’m just going to go way off topic and talk about that for a long time. And also, I’m not going to be grounded enough, in fact, to make it worthwhile.
Andy [00:18:41] So I just had that quote off the top of my head. I knew you were into that stuff, so I had to throw it throw it out there. Well, this might be a good time to transition into our next segment, which is Sex Slang Shakedown!
Andy [00:19:01] Oh, that was so good. Cool. So in this segment, I have found some sex slang which I will read off. And you two are going to guess which one is the real sex slang. Two of them are false. Two of them are made up, but one of them is real. All right, let’s get right into it as everything makes sense to you guys. Sound good?
Johnny [00:19:21] Yeah. Yeah. Okay.
Andy [00:19:23] Number one. The Ballcuzzi. The Ballcuzzi. Hmm. I don’t know about that one. Number two, drowning the clown. Drowning the clown. Drowning the clown. Number three. The Big Churchill Kamikaze. The Big Churchill Kamikaze. Which one is the real slang?
Aery Mars [00:20:01] I already know my guess. Johnny, do you have one? Oh.
Johnny [00:20:04] I got it. One. But ladies first.
Aery Mars [00:20:08] I think The Ballcuzzi is real.
Andy [00:20:11] Okay. Okay, Johnny.
Johnny [00:20:13] That would be. That would have been my guess as well. Yeah. What? Koozie? I don’t know why, but something related to Jacuzzi was. Yeah, just. Just what would have been my guess. I think. I guess the last episode on the first one as well. I’ve never been right. I would have. I would be so happy to earn some brownie points today.
Andy [00:20:40] Johnny has never gotten this one right, Aery.
Aery Mars [00:20:43] No. And he’s never cheated. And to his credit, he’s never cheated and looked it up, right?
Johnny [00:20:48] That’s true. Yeah, kind of.
Aery Mars [00:20:49] I did not either. Andy sent these in advance listeners, and I did not look them up because I have so much self-restraint.
Andy [00:20:59] She’s got You got character, Aery. That’s what you got. You’re a stand up human being.
Aery Mars [00:21:03] Oh, thanks.
Andy [00:21:03] That’s what it is. Thank you. But unfortunately, I have to tell you both that you are absolutely… Correct.
Johnny [00:21:13] Wow. Hey. Brownie points for both of us.
Andy [00:21:19] So I was really hoping you guys would choose The Big Churchill Kamikaze because I really liked that one. I just loved the sound of it.
Aery Mars [00:21:27] What if you. If you had to give a definition to your fake terms, what would the Big Churchill Kamikaze be?
Andy [00:21:34] I’m thinking wearing kimonos and smoking cigars while 69ing.
Johnny [00:21:45] Hmm.
Aery Mars [00:21:46] All right, Now, I got to ask, what about drowning the clown?
Andy [00:21:49] I think that one’s easy. That one’s easy. You got to, like, put one of those squeaky clown noses over your balls, and when you fucking, just make tgenoiise (weird clown noises)
Aery Mars [00:22:05] So you said that was easy and that I was like, Oh, you have to dress like a clown and then get waterboarded. Like, I don’t. It’s not as obvious as you think. The the squeaky nose on the balls.
Andy [00:22:17] I don’t know. I just made those both up on the spot. I have no idea what these.
Johnny [00:22:21] Well, you did great. Thank you. Okay, well, I like to clown nose on the balls way more than waterboarding.
Aery Mars [00:22:29] Me, too, actually. Way more playful. I went straight to the darkest definition of that. Okay, What about the Ballcuzie?
Aery Mars [00:22:38] Cuzi. I have a guess.
Andy [00:22:39] Oh, yeah.
Aery Mars [00:22:40] Let’s see. I have a guess of what I think. I think the ball Koozie is a really thorough. It’s like making a jacuzzi in your mouth when you’re sucking on somebody’s balls. Oh, like and blowing bubbles around it.
Andy [00:22:51] Oh, wow. You’re really close. Actually, you’re really close. The definition is you take like a cup of warm water. You put their balls into the cup of warm water and you get a straw and you put the straw into the cup of water and you make bubbles like a Jacuzzi.
Aery Mars [00:23:15] That was so much funnier. Give them a little bath and you make fake little bubbles with a straw.
Johnny [00:23:22] That’s cute. You can even fake bubbles.
Aery Mars [00:23:23] But manual bubbles.
Andy [00:23:26] You can even put a bubble bath in there if you want it to be more authentic.
Johnny [00:23:29] Oh, yeah. Or sparkling water?
Aery Mars [00:23:31] So this bubble. But it’s bubble bath, just like soap or is it something like stronger?
Johnny [00:23:39] I don’t know.
Andy [00:23:41] I don’t know. That’s a good question for my wife. She’s, like, obsessed with that shit. She does the whole, like, bath bombs and stuff, and I don’t even understand what that’s the real confusing one for me is bath bombs. It just looks like a big ball of salts or something.
Aery Mars [00:23:55] I’ve even made bath bombs before one year for like, holiday gifts, and I can’t even remember what was in them. Literally no memory.
Andy [00:24:04] That is not compelling.
Aery Mars [00:24:06] No, it’s not. I mean, it was things you can find in the grocery store. It was all like none of the ingredients freaked me out. So it’s got that going for it.
Andy [00:24:15] It’s like it’s not a shit like lye or anything like that. It’s mostly like Epsom salt and shit, right?
Aery Mars [00:24:21] Yeah, more like Epsom salts and maybe like baking soda or something like that. And, you know, some essential oils. So I can’t remember what holds it together.
Andy [00:24:30] So the same stuff you need to make like a volcano for your science project.
Aery Mars [00:24:35] Yeah, totally. You just put vinegar and baking soda and you stick your balls in there and take a bath.
Aery Mars [00:24:41] Just feels great.
Johnny [00:24:42] And what do we call that one?
Andy [00:24:46] Yeah. Y’all ready for the third segment?
Aery Mars [00:24:48] Yeah.
Andy [00:24:49] All right. Questions and Answers
Andy [00:24:55] Johnny.
Johnny [00:24:56] Harry, you seem like a genuinely kinky human being that’s spill over to your personal life. Or where’s the line between kink and romance for you in personal life? Do you. Do you make a difference between that?
Aery Mars [00:25:13] Um, yes and yes. So yes, kink is a part of my personal life. And yes, there is a line for me. I don’t really see romance and kink as being necessAeryly overlapping. I, you know, often if I’m looking for a specific kink, I go looking for a person people to do that specific thing with. And I would like to get anyone playing with. I would like to get along with and be able to have a good conversation with. But it doesn’t mean I’m necessAeryly romantically attracted to or involved with them. But if I’m dating somebody who I do have a good kink vibe or dynamic with, that’s like nice and exciting and a good bonus. Um, yeah. So yes, a line feels big for me, but, but actually recently I’m dating somebody who were trying to figure that out right now. Like where what is our kink dynamic going to be like? What things do we have in common? And that’s been really fun and nice to get to kind of integrate both like romance and sexuality and kink all together.
Johnny [00:26:21] Okay. So right place, right people. And everything is fine for kink or romance or both, maybe.
Aery Mars [00:26:32] Yeah, that’s like the nice thing about my relationship style is I can kind of. I can pick and choose, like, different people for different parts of myself. And I don’t try to make anybody fit into a box that’s like satisfying all of my needs or anything.
Johnny [00:26:47] Kind of.
Johnny [00:26:50] Just to to go back to some pretty quick things. What led you to make so much pride content? Is there a high demand on that?
Aery Mars [00:27:00] You know, if there is, I haven’t really tapped into it.
Aery Mars [00:27:06] I just think it’s hot.
Johnny [00:27:08] Okay, So more kind of a personal thing? I guess so.
Aery Mars [00:27:13] Yeah. Yeah, it’s more of a personal interest.
Johnny [00:27:15] We’re working on creating the demand for that.
Aery Mars [00:27:22] Yeah. And. Yeah, and I. I think I could do a better job. Maybe if I’m not really, like, a good business person. I don’t really like to advertise myself so far. And I’m a little behind on the I have, you know, my life is full and this is a side gig. I have multiple jobs and and so it’s hard to stay on top of making content. And sometimes I don’t feel inspired, but I, I do often feel inspired by, like, scenAeryos or things that turn me on about premature ejaculation. And so I think that’s why I continue to make it. And, um. Yeah. And we’ll, we’ll continue to.
Andy [00:27:59] Wow, that is so refreshing. It is so refreshing to see a content maker doing it, I guess pursuing a fetish because they genuinely love it. And even though there isn’t high demand.
Aery Mars [00:28:11] I think a lot of well, I think a lot of people probably pursue fetishes that they’re specifically into. And, you know, I bet a lot of times content creators create demand. You know, if you’re attracted to somebody and you like their style and they’re into a specific kink, I could see, you know, we can get programmed into all kinds of stuff, as you both know.
Andy [00:28:30] What do you mean by that exactly?
Aery Mars [00:28:34] I mean conditioning. You know, you’re horny. You see something when you’re horny, your brain associates the thing and it’s like, wow, now I’m turned on my feet. Does that sound like anyone you know? Andy.
Johnny [00:28:49] We don’t know who you’re talking about.
Aery Mars [00:28:53] She said for y’all weren’t expecting that are going to get flustered toes, soles.
Johnny [00:29:01] Oh, lordy. Oh, no socks.
Aery Mars [00:29:04] Dirty, smelly shoes.
Johnny [00:29:06] Oh, God.
Aery Mars [00:29:08] If anyone comes during this segment, I would like them to message me.
Andy [00:29:11] And where should I message you?
Aery Mars [00:29:12] Well. Oh, yeah, wherever it’s in our in our group chat is good.
Andy [00:29:21] Oh, God. Are you going to make some feet content?
Aery Mars [00:29:24] I do make feet content occasionally, but right now I’m feeling self-conscious about my feet because when I go hiking, I get calluses and I don’t really want to remove my calluses. I like them. They protect my feet. Right? But I feel like if I’m going to take photos of that, my feet should look smooth. So I feel torn between the different sides of myself.
Andy [00:29:41] Well, let’s let’s say you had some nice heels, for example. You don’t have to show off any calluses if you’re wearing heels, right?
Aery Mars [00:29:51] That’s true. I take photos in heels sometimes.
Andy [00:29:53] I know.
Aery Mars [00:29:55] Oh, you know.
Andy [00:29:56] Oh, I know. Oh.
Johnny [00:29:59] I guess all people in the Discord know. Because if I remember right, you once had that photo of you and. Oh, just. I guess it was just the heel.
Aery Mars [00:30:14] Yeah, I’m sure I have. I’m sure I have posted that.
Andy [00:30:19] And I do follow you on your Fansly as well.
Aery Mars [00:30:22] So thank you for that.
Andy [00:30:25] I watch it very closely. Speaking of your fancy, I know you have a prejac section there and you do a lot of prejac content. I kind of made the prejac training that most people are using and oddly enough coined the word “prejac” about five years ago. It’s frigging cool to see.
Aery Mars [00:30:49] It’s so.
Johnny [00:30:50] Cool.
Andy [00:30:50] Oh, it’s so cool. It’s so cool to see awesome creatives like yourself using this. I just it’s awesome.
Aery Mars [00:30:59] I just think it’s cool that you coined the term. Really. It feels like it’s it’s like industry. What is the industry exactly? But just feel industry standard now. Like I feel like people know what it means. It’s very intuitive just from hearing it anyway. But yeah, I have definitely seen other creators using it a lot as well.
Andy [00:31:19] That is so inspiring. Yeah, I really like it inspires.
Aery Mars [00:31:25] What does it inspire you to do?
Andy [00:31:26] It inspires me to take this more seriously, you know, I guess.
Aery Mars [00:31:31] Produce an army of quick shots.
Andy [00:31:35] And inspires me to run for office in the Prejac arena.
Aery Mars [00:31:39] Yeah, exactly. I’m Andy’s nominee or not nominee nominator. I’m Andy’s nominator of I’ve coined you president prematurely. I don’t know why it hasn’t taken off because you’re like the president of the pre jocks. You like train everyone, you make all the websites, you make the discord server. You could easily become the dictator of the pre jack. But I think that you’re benevolent. And you should be. You should be our president.
Andy [00:32:03] The president’s good. I’ll take dictator, too. But I think dictators make more money than presidents.
Aery Mars [00:32:09] Do they? It’s got to be dick spelled with a K?
Johnny [00:32:13] Yeah.
Andy [00:32:14] Diktator. Dictator of the Prejacs.
Aery Mars [00:32:18] Dictating everyone sticks to shoot in under a minute.
Andy [00:32:22] A lot of people online that make content in your sort of field of not safe your work good stuff. Start with wearing masks and really staying quite anonymous online. I know a lot of people that still wear masks online to keep their anonymity. Did you start this way or did you just jump right in showing your face and and going for it?
Aery Mars [00:32:46] I jumped in with my face. I have thought about doing sex work for a long time. I haven’t. Because, you know, like I said, I have other jobs and other, you know, stuff in my life where I don’t necessarily want everyone to know. But yeah, but I think I’m also pretty realistic. And I think making content without showing your face is hard. And I also think like. That my face is cute and I thought I would do better if I showed my face. Right. But yeah, but. So I don’t. I don’t want it to sound like I don’t care about my privacy like I do. But I think I again, I’m pretty realistic about it. And I think that it’d be hard work without showing my face. And also, I try to protect my privacy in more ways, like digital security sort of stuff, if that makes sense. But this is a whole big topic too, that feels like I could talk about for an hour of, like, sex workers and and privacy. And what if your customers didn’t like your face after all that time? They’d like, really liked your body or your personality or whatever. And they were like, Oh, that face, though I can’t look at that. Like that would hurt my feelings so bad. I’d rather people just like, know if they’re into me or not. Right off the bat, you know.
Johnny [00:34:09] You earlier said you you had you met some of of fellow discord people and yeah you thought about maybe training him or you both train together to him become more kind of a jerk. Are you still thinking about training him to to be more quick or are you planning on training him?
Aery Mars [00:34:36] Well, I think okay, so training you need to be consistent. And I think without us having sessions like multiple times a week, I don’t think I can really train him 100%. He’s training himself. And and if I’m being honest, like, I don’t have the time to train somebody unless they were like living with me or paying me a significant amount of money that I would like dedicate, you know, that much of my life to, to being totally in control of like when they masturbate and and how. Yeah, but in terms of my training with him, I think like he’s getting more comfortable with me, which I think helps get times down, just being less nervous. And I’m learning more about like him and his kinks and things like that. So. So yeah, I think in that way he’ll be getting trained, but.
Johnny [00:35:26] It’s you’re kind of supportive so not really training but.
Aery Mars [00:35:30] Yeah I think the support.
Johnny [00:35:32] Yeah. Okay.
Aery Mars [00:35:33] An encouragement. Exactly.
Johnny [00:35:35] That’s cool. Lucky guy.
Aery Mars [00:35:39] He’s lucky.
Johnny [00:35:40] He’s lucky.
Andy [00:35:43] Yeah. I think. Yeah. 50,000 projects on our subreddit. I probably think he’s damn lucky.
Johnny [00:35:49] Well.
Aery Mars [00:35:51] I’m like, again, I’m as much as I like him, he’s great. I still have not met a true I’ve not played with in person like a true like organic prejac who is actually someone who actually just like came their pants when they walked into my house would be the dream honestly so organic you know the unicorns the unicorns can still still have a chance.
Andy [00:36:16] Organic prejac.
Aery Mars [00:36:20] You have a better term for that. I don’t know what to call that.
Johnny [00:36:22] It’s time for another public announcement to all the naturals I guess.
Andy [00:36:29] Organic prejac, I don’t have a better term for organic prejac. That is really good. It hits it on the nose. There’s like, but it makes me think of produce.
Johnny [00:36:37] Hmm.
Aery Mars [00:36:39] Yeah. Producing come real fast. Yeah.
Andy [00:36:42] You’re pretty punny.
Johnny [00:36:44] Huh?
Andy [00:36:46] Oh, boy. All right, let’s move on. So you love the prejac fetish? We know this, but what other fetishes do you really, really like?
Aery Mars [00:36:57] Um, I really like outer coarse dry humping. That’s a big one for me, which I think overlaps a lot with prejac. Like, Oh, yeah. You know, I am into smelling people like armpits, into armpits. I’m really into something I’ve been really into lately is like my partners or people I’m playing with having sex with other people. Yeah. Like, yeah, Uh, the other day I have There’s been a couple of times this past week that, like, someone I’m dating, we had sex in the morning, and then that afternoon I knew he had a date with his other partner, and I was like, I hope he’s fucking. I hope he’s having sex. And I asked him later and he was like, Yeah, I did. And I was like, Oh, that’s great. Like, Wow, I’m really into that. And similarly, somebody else like, sent me pictures of them fucking somebody else because I was horny at work and like, couldn’t get out of work. And so he sent me videos, which brings me a lot of joy and I’m curious, like I feel like the kink name of that or like a related kink of that is like cuckolding queening, which is something I’ve never played with before, but I’m very curious about. I just don’t have like the shame aspect associated with it. Like I’m not so much into like the embarrassment. I’m more into like hedonistic pleasure or sluttyness part of it.
Andy [00:38:15] Okay, Yeah, I’m sure Johnny would agree that that, that sounds like cuckold, but I think you’re right in that your assessment of cuckold is that it includes or incorporates some level of humiliation and domination. I think so yeah. I’m not sure what to call it. Johnny, what do you think?
Johnny [00:38:35] It’s kind of some kind of hotwire thing or anything like that.
Andy [00:38:40] That’s. That’s. That’s it.
Johnny [00:38:42] Yeah.
Andy [00:38:42] But not.
Johnny [00:38:43] Quite. That category is more about the humiliation and all that kind of stuff. But the Hotwire thing is more about finding it hard to see your partner or to know your partner as with some somebody else, I guess. Swinging? Yeah, I don’t know.
Aery Mars [00:39:02] But I don’t have a wife and I’m not a wife.
Johnny [00:39:05] So what is it or what? I don’t. I don’t know the the name for, for, for men. That kind of talk. I know. Yeah.
Aery Mars [00:39:15] Yeah, yeah. But that, that whole, that whole category things I meant to um, as I’ve, as you guys have probably picked up on, I’m into group sex I like, I like threesomes and group play, I like all kinds of orgasm control, like edging denial, teasing, milking, obviously premature ejaculation, pat play. I know they’re total. It’s so hard to reconcile them. It is. Uh, yeah. I’ve got more joy to keep going.
Johnny [00:39:50] Yeah.
Aery Mars [00:39:51] Yeah, yeah. I’ve gotten more into, like, degradation, like degrading others. I’m really into the teasing. And so I think just like, different forms of, like being mean to people and laughing at them has become more of a regular interest for me. Consensual non consent like kind of body worship stuff. Money has definitely become more of a fetish for me in certain ways, like a little bit of fin dom. That’s something I’ve dabbled in, but I’m honestly a little too concerned about people’s like financial stability to feel like. Like I can be a good fin dom. But, but I think more like, um. The way this overlaps. Like I feel like hooking up with somebody who I wouldn’t like. I’ve I’ve sugared before, so I had sugar daddies and things like that. And the money was definitely like a big part of that being hot to me. Yeah, there was something about like, you’re somebody who I’m only attracted enough to that I will, like, be with you either even just hang out with you if you’re paying me. And there’s something about that that like, either made me feel powerful and also felt like a little feels a little bit degrading on my end to It’s kind of a complicated one.
Andy [00:41:07] I get you.
Aery Mars [00:41:09] Yeah. And yeah, like other different role play vibes, power exchange in general. And then there’s a lot of stuff that I think would be a kink of mine that I’ve never done. Like I’m really interested in glory holes, very curious about those, very curious about medical play. Like I really like going to the gynecologist and I always like, get a bit of a thrill out of. I’m like, Oh, they’re like fondling me. And so I’d be interested in doing more explicitly, like kinky medical play.
Andy [00:41:39] You have a crapload of fetishes and those are awesome. You’ve got a lot of range and it’s really impressive. You make some fantastic content, but what is your next big project? What’s next for Aery Mars?
Aery Mars [00:41:55] I don’t think I have a next big project. I think my next big project is figuring out how to make content in a more like regular, sustainable way that works for me instead of my, like, really inconsistent making things, posting them, and then not making anything for a while. Yeah. So I think my big project is like sorting out my life and getting myself in a good place of balance. But yeah, but then my other projects, like small, small projects, like I mentioned, I just hooked up like last week with this with a fellow content creator. He’s an amputee, so his content mostly caters to amputee fetishists and he’s really into like piss play water sports stuff. So I, in collaborating with him, probably going to be doing some of that, some of his, you know, things that appeal to his audience and what else? I don’t have any other, like big, big plans in the works. But yeah, why Do you have anything you want me to do?
Andy [00:42:59] Yeah, I do.
Aery Mars [00:43:02] Tell me.
Andy [00:43:02] Well, I want more prejca stuff. I like your hypnosis stuff. I’d love to hear some more audio from you because you’ve got a tremendous voice. I’m sure the audience will agree and probably obviously to everyone. I’d love to see more feet stuff from you.
Aery Mars [00:43:19] I thought you might say that.
Andy [00:43:21] Yeah. You knew that was coming?
Aery Mars [00:43:22] Well, I just took notes, so we’ll get. We’ll get you some of that.
Andy [00:43:26] The hypnosis angle is really popular these days and would be something I think our audience would really buy into.
Aery Mars [00:43:34] Totally. Did you know? So here’s the thing. I was making some hypno files, and then I found out it’s not technically allowed on some of the sites, so I need to find out where it is loud. I’m wondering if, unlike many vids, it’s allowed. But fans, Lee and only fans. You’re not technically supposed to post hypnosis.
Andy [00:43:52] You’re joking.
Aery Mars [00:43:52] I know I’m not joking because it’s considered they group it with like, intoxication. I was also kind of getting into like the intox content because a friend of mine was like, really, really into that. Wow. And yeah, I was like, is this allowed? Am I allowed to encourage people to drink? And no, I’m not. And I’m also not really supposed to hypnotize people.
Aery Mars [00:44:14] Whoops.
Johnny [00:44:15] So they kind of proved that might be working in some way. Harry, is there anything you want to say to your listeners? Maybe some motivational message or. Anything like that for people with training.
Aery Mars [00:44:34] Yeah, I’d love to motivate the people.
Johnny [00:44:37] Yeah. Please do that.
Aery Mars [00:44:41] Yeah. I think if this is something that either comes naturally to you or you’re just genuinely interested in, it turns you on. Like don’t be afraid to embrace it. I think there’s a lot of cultural messaging that says this is bad, but I am really into this. Clearly, other people are really into this. Like Andy just said, there’s what, 50,000 people in the Discord server who entered this and somebody out there is going to really enjoy you and your body and like, you know the way that your body is. So if you want to do it or you have a knack for it, follow, follow your premature dick.
Andy [00:45:15] That was beautiful. That was beautiful. So this has been the sixth episode of the Prejac podcast. We have been incredibly lucky to have our guests, Aery Mars, go find her on Fansly.com/AeryMars. All of the links are in the comments. Check her out. You’re going to love her content. Johnny, what was your favorite part of this podcast?
Johnny [00:45:38] My favorite part one part was that I won some brownie points with Aery, and I loved her positivity about some very cool fetishes and yes, caring for sexual health and anything else. So I loved everything about that podcast episode and I hope you did as well.
Andy [00:46:05] Aery, thank you so much for coming on. We really love chatting with you and we hope you can come on again.
Aery Mars [00:46:12] I would love that. It’s been really fun chatting with you, too.
Andy [00:46:15] All right, guys, We’ll see you next time on the Prejac Podcast.
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